Glen & Amber are sandwiched between their elder parents and three children, ages 15-24. Glen has been managing their investments on his own and would like to retire from his corporate job. With family pressures complicating this decision, friends referred them to us for financial advice.
In our Discovery Meeting, we learned that Glen’s parents are in their late seventies and becoming less independent. His sister lives closest to them but increasingly frequent trips are straining her family. Amber’s parents are divorced; her dad and his wife are stable, but her mom is struggling with health and financial issues.
Seeking comfort for Glen’s career decision, we started with the family needs. Through our Generational Conversations program, we provided comprehensive information on care management options. Hiring occasional home caregivers who report to Glen’s sister proved to be a good solution. Amber’s mother moved into independent senior living at a reasonable monthly cost. She is now happier in a social setting and Amber is greatly relieved. The proceeds from selling her mom’s home combined with Social Security will keep mom financially stable for many years.
The couple’s elder daughter, Olivia graduated college with some 529 funds remaining, which we transferred to their middle child. Olivia is now largely independent with a first job, and gets occasional support from her parents.
In addition to increasing 529 contributions for the younger kids, we opened custodial (or UTMA) accounts. These are irrevocable gifts that a parent controls until the children reach their state’s age of majority. Unlike 529’s, they can receive annual gifts of stock and mutual funds and get a preferential tax rate on sales. Glen gifted some appreciated company stock which was promptly sold. The proceeds can immediately cover some extracurricular expenses and later fund college costs ineligible for 529’s like cars, Greek life and entertainment.
With family issues addressed, we narrowed in on the retirement conversation. We explored Social Security strategies. Glen also expects some consulting opportunities. We all agreed to start managing Glen and Amber’s investments right away. Our paradigm of aligning investments to match expected income needs brings comfort around retirement spending, while capturing growth with longer-term dollars.
Generational Conversations also supports adult children and their elder parents to plan for housing, legal strategies and security needs.
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